Ordinarily, one should believe the affidavit as
deposed to, especially bearing in mind the consequences of
pejorative statement sworn to under oath. But these are not
ordinary times and Obasanjo is not an ordinary man. He has become
an institution in Nigeria, for better or for worse. He has been an
instrument of change (catastrophic or otherwise) in Nigeria. And
if the affidavit by his own son is true; I strongly suspect it is
NOT, it will commend itself to the myriads of psychoanalysts in
Nigeria and all over the world!
Obasanjo, Gbenga and Mojisola: Defiling Yoruba Culture by Tunde Adenodi.
Curiously, I am hoping no one will read this
article! The obvious solution to this dilemma is not to write it.
No one can read what is not written! This is not so simple
especially when I feel a compulsive, probably even a compelling
need to write it. Compulsive, because a person’s gut reaction to
issues is often the right one and compelling, because it is wrong
not to comment on the bizarre stories coming from Obasanjo’s
staple.
The title mentions only three characters:
former President Olusegun Obasanjo, Gbenga, his first son and
Mojisola, his first daughter-in-law. There is a fourth character:
Otunba Alex Onabanjo, Mojisola’s father. And minor characters such
as Gbenga’s children. It is a story worthy of the tabloids and
soap operas on Broadway, in New York or Hollywood. Except that it
is the shame of a culture nurtured for ages. It is not fun to talk
about, and certainly, not easy to write about. So, don’t read
further if you do not have a hard-headed curiosity of the likes of
famed Amebo of the Village Headmaster.
There is an affidavit sworn to by Olugbenga
Obasanjo, obviously a reply to one sworn to by his estranged wife,
Mojisola, for dissolution of their marriage in the High Court of
Lagos State in the Ikeja Judicial Division. It was dated January
11, 2008. Gbenga provides 50 reasons why he believes that the
marriage should be annulled. Three of the reasons stand out like a
sore thumb as follows:
“That the respondent (Mojisola Oluyemisi)
confided in him severally while they were living together that
she had been sexually abused and defiled by her (own) father,
Otunba Alex Onabanjo on several occasions”.
That he knows for a fact that the
respondent committed adultery with and had intimate sexual
relationship with his own father, General Olusegun Obasanjo,
due to her greed to curry favours and contracts from him in
his capacity as President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria”.
That the sexual relationship of the
respondent with her own father, Otunba Alex Onabanjo and his
father General Olusegun Obasanjo has brought him great pains
and psychological trauma and is the primary reason for the
breakdown of his marriage with the respondent”.
It should be noted that many other depositions
flow from the major three listed above.
In Yoruba land, and indeed many other lands,
this is an abomination. It rarely happens, if ever. And if it
does, it is never made the subject of public discourse. It is a
family secret discussed in hush tones. The subject will remain a
secret for ever! Why did Gbenga break this tradition?
If Alex Onabanjo had had an incestuous
relationship with Mojisola, why had Gbenga been a party to the
cover-up? Why had he not divorced her earlier on this ground? If
Obasanjo had had an incestuous relationship with his own
daughter-in-law, why had he remained quiet until now? Why is he
the victim twice over of this bizarre sexual perversion of the two
major male characters in his life?
Ordinarily, one should believe the affidavit as
deposed to, especially bearing in mind the consequences of
pejorative statement sworn to under oath. But these are not
ordinary times and Obasanjo is not an ordinary man. He has become
an institution in Nigeria, for better or for worse. He has been an
instrument of change (catastrophic or otherwise) in Nigeria. And
if the affidavit by his own son is true; I strongly suspect it is
NOT, it will commend itself to the myriads of psychoanalysts in
Nigeria and all over the world!
In order to fully analyze this story, it is
necessary to bring into context the nature of General Obasanjo as
revealed by himself in his public life in the last 40 years.
Abubakar Atiku was the most disloyal deputy
there has ever been. Buoyed by his bloated sense of “popularity” (
I call it notoriety), he went to work, destroying Obasanjo’s
northern base while both were in power thus pulling the rug from
under Obasanjo’s feet. This was in time for the 2003 re-election
campaign of Obasanjo, long before his attempt to stay in power
beyond 2007. However, Atiku did not know whom he was dealing with.
He did not know how crude and vindictive Obasanjo was. He did not
know how wicked a heart he had. He did not know that if you ride a
tiger, you are likely to end up on his dinner table. And that is
exactly what Obasanjo did. He tore into smithereens Atiku’s
reputation (do they all have any?), and sought to destroy him
politically. And because of his modus operandi on Nigeria’s
political mine-field, he could not get the National Assembly to
impeach Atiku. It would have been a political kamikaze.
He was instrumental to the jailing of Wole
Soyinka for the entire period of the Civil War only because
Soyinka delivered a message from Brigadier Banjo that would have
changed the course of Nigerian history. Obasanjo was in office as
Head of State and as president for about 13 years. Yet his own
people hate him like the Palestinians hate Israelis. In
Yoruba land, Obasanjo is now a pariah. This must tell a lot about
Obasanjo’s character.
What does this have to do with Gbenga and
Mojisola? A lot! If Gbenga is a chip of the old block as I suspect
he is, then he must be like his father. He will stop at nothing to
destroy his opponent! He will not mind destroying his own father.
Not to talk about his father-in-law.
When does it become the responsibility of a son
to engage in age declaration for his own father? Why would
Olugbenga be announcing to the world in 2006 that his father was
actually older than he had admitted? Sometimes, the shrub, as
innocent as it may look, grows up to become a wild cactus.
Olugbenga Obasanjo is a wild cactus probably more dangerous than
his father.
Those who want a public comment on this issue
do not know the enormity of the charge in Yoruba land. What is he
supposed to say? “I did not do it”? Obasanjo loves his son and
will probably not want anything terrible to happen to him. The
veracity of the charge will remain a secret for ever. It is the
word of a pervert and sadistic son against the silence of an even
more pervert and sadistic father.
When he was born, Obasanjo named him Olugbenga
– God has exalted me. I am sure that he is singing a new tune now.
One word of caution: Beware of the Obasanjo’s.
Especially the patriach! If it is true that he did what his son
says he did, it is a defilement of Yoruba tradition. If it is not
true and Gbenga did it to punish his father, it is even a worst
defilement of Yoruba tradition. Both of them, father and son,
deserve to go to the hottest part of hell.